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Bang! Yous did awesome and set a starting time date.

You lot both showed upwards and made the best of it.

Simply what exercise you text after the first date to make the biggest & all-time impact?

You're about to observe out!

Here's what you go far this article:

• The 3 worst texts to ship afterward a commencement appointment (that near people ship!)
• My 2 re-create paste 'Thank y'all' texts that brand your engagement smile
• ii Screenshot examples from omnibus Dan (that secured him the second date)
• Free gift: 10 copy paste texts to proceed the conversation going
• If you had a mediocre date: I'll tell y'all how to reject someone afterwards a bad beginning date
• Much more…

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#1 Three bad texting examples sent after the first engagement

If you've had a fun first engagement and y'all are downwardly for a second one…

…then avoid the most common mistakes.

I've seen countless second engagement plans vanish like a bag of Doritos nacho cheese in the hands of a basement domicile WoW RP-PVE player.

(if that metaphor wasn't clear: they vanished Actually fast)

Probably the WORST text you could transport, is one from another dating advice website.

It pains me so much to see them giving out advice similar this but hey…

…maybe I can prevent some of the harm they practise to unaware men's dating lives, by posting it here as worst text after a date ever.

Are y'all set up?

Afterward you left I spent hours imagining how tasty your torso must expect naked.

I swear I can physically feel the blench run through my veins equally I am reading this text.

I don't call up I have to explain why this is bad, right?

Every bit a guy, you would probably be happy with a text like this. Unless if you are looking for a serious long term relationship.

But imagine being a girl. You probably exchanged some basic info similar what you studied and what your family is like. So you both told a swell travel story and before yous knew, the date came to an end.

You get home, bank check your phone and the guy says he has been fantasizing about what you look like naked.

What.

The.

Phuck.

He was probably undressing you in his mind the whole time while you were telling him how you swam underneath a waterfall in India.

Simply don't worry, there'due south plenty of other text advice I found past this aforementioned team.

The problem here?

Holy Tip:

When y'all send something over text that conveys a completely DIFFERENT vibe than your actual date, then it creates a total mismatch online versus offline. We volition focus more on this later.

How near this one:

You're incredible, you were the highlight of my nighttime and the star of my dreams.

It's too bad you had to leave so early on, nosotros didn't fifty-fifty have the chance to kiss.

There's merely one type of guy that would text something like this.

And information technology's this blazon:

Spotter the video above twice, delight. And experience the burn. Call up this feeling forever.

That is what your engagement will feel when you send a sexual text right after a first appointment that wasn't sexual.

Aaaaand that's enough blench for today.

Let's see what we tin actually text to make your girl smile, and secure that second appointment!

#2: 2 'Cheers' text examples that will make your engagement grinning

Want to show her that you lot liked the date? Amend avert coming across every bit either uninterested or too interested?

Merely copy my 2 'thank you' case texts and transport them subsequently the outset date.

All you need to do is slightly alter them so they are tailored to your date.

Like I wrote before, it's of import to recreate the vibe you had offline.

Hither's the most standard of the two texts after outset appointment:

Hey [name], thank you for earlier. I really enjoyed [what yous did], and your company wasn't bad either [emoji that makes clear you're joking]

So allow's say you went on a date with Louise and y'all went bowling together. And then your text looks like this:

Hey Louise, thanks for before. I really enjoyed throwing those strikes, and your company wasn't bad either 😉

As you see [what you did] was 'bowling'. Simply why non brand it slightly more visual.

Want to make your text more visual? Add details!

Examples are:

• throwing strikes
• attempts at throwing strikes
• bruising my fingers past trying to print yous with picking the heaviest bowling balls

As e'er, humor is the key ingredient.

The second example is a bit more lengthy. Because you'll requite her a compliment. And this is where you demand to be careful.

Holy Tip:

Thanking a woman for a date with her is the polite thing to practice. Simply understand this:

A woman doesn't want a human who is necessarily thankful for her time and energy.

She wants a human being that makes her feel APPRECIATED. When she feels appreciated, she won't mind investing her fourth dimension and free energy into y'all.

It'southward a small difference, I know. Yet the departure of meaning is massive.

And once you fully understand this, you'll notice the big difference it will have on your dating life.

This beholden attitude ties in with the side by side tip:

Holy Tip:

When complimenting a woman, keep in listen that she isn't waiting for you to worship her appearance. There's already plenty of men doing then.

If y'all've been on a date with her, compliment her on her behavior instead.

She's pretty much born with her looks. Her behavior and interest are things she has more than of a say in

But await at this example from 1 of the coaches:

Your stories are fun to listen to. Liked the ones almost truth or dare and the indecisive guy that was working in Poland. Sweet dreams.

PS: don't study me to the police cheers.

The Post Scriptum nigh beingness reported to the police force is callback humor. The guy shared a story of some crazy take chances he had been on.

What do you think she'd appreciate more? Her engagement telling her she has interesting stories, followed past some details to show he actually paid attention and listened…

…or her engagement texting her this:

You are very beautiful. Sweet dreams.

PS: don't report me to the constabulary thank you

The second text pretty much says: "My summary of our time together is that you are adept looking. I can't actually be arsed with what you lot say or do."

Please, feel free to steal this format and change it where need so that it fits your date experience.

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#3 Sample text after first engagement (real life example)

In this tip, I'1000 giving y'all an example of how to text her after the appointment so you can be smoothen sailing towards date number 2.

One of the quickest ways to primary anything, is to run into exactly how other people do it.

So sit back and relax, and enjoy another example from ane of the TextGod coaches.

Here's some context:

Passenger vehicle Dan went on a date with a Brazilian daughter. Before the date, they texted about existence common cold as a person.

During the date they talked well-nigh Dutch people being more directly, and she fabricated a annotate that autobus Dan was more than sexual than nearly Brazilians. (That'south quite the compliment, thousand'lady.)

And at some point during the date, coach Dan started ranting well-nigh how emasculated the monkey face emojis are, and that no cocky-respecting man should use them. (I bet this is the part where she swooned over him)

These culprits: 🙈🙉🙊

So, here's what he texted subsequently the date on WhatsApp:

Is there whatever super-special-super-cloak-and-dagger-magic-technique being used hither?

Nope.

Just like in Tip #2, we:

• Say some sort of thanks (Good seeing you)
• And refer back to the date (Cold Dutch hugs)

And so in the texts after there'due south more references to the appointment, similar the monkey emoji spam.

Followed by Dan planning the second engagement, which at the time of writing is set for this Tuesday.

Cuties.

Now, if there'south a bit of a bloodhound in you, then yous might accept paid attention to the timestamps of the texts.

They sort of tell y'all when to text her after the date, but not really.

But don't you worry, comrade, the next tip volition tell you just that!

#4 When to text afterwards first appointment

And so you had a offset date and you want to text her. You accept copy pastable texts to send her BUT…

…WHEN do you lot hit her upward? Do yous text afterwards the first date or the adjacent mean solar day?

Let's say you had a java date effectually 4pm.

When would you text her, bro?

Here are 5 options for y'all:

1. right later

2. hour after

3. two-three hours after

iv. four-v hours after

5. six-seven hours afterward

Pick one.

Alright, chose one?

Good.

Hither's the biggest mistake you could have made:

Texting her CHEESY stuff RIGHT AFTER the appointment.

PLEASE NO. STOP. Carelessness SHIP!

Imagine how creeped out you would be by this overly attached girl.

Those kinds of text Tin be sweet when you're in the lovey-dovey phase. Not after a outset date.

I'd go for option C ordinarily. Or in this case E.

Option C, 2-three hours after the date is quite casual. You give each other some time to breath. Some time to process the date. And so hit her upward with a solid text.

Option E, 6-7 hours would be texting her at in the late evening, when she's in bed. Imagine YOU went on a engagement. You don't hear from the girl afterward the date. You lot start wondering why. Did y'all fuck upwards? You relive the date while brushing your teeth…

…damn, you actually really liked the time spent together.

As y'all clamber into bed it happens…

*bzzzz*

A text. And it'southward from her.

Thanks for before, I actually enjoyed that. Maybe we can practise information technology again some fourth dimension?

That would feel GOOD wouldn't it? Especially subsequently not hearing from her for a couple of hours and starting to stress out a footling bit.

And you have the same effect.

The tricky function is the timing. Do information technology also belatedly and she'southward asleep. Practice it too early and… well then she'll read it before she's in bed. Non the platonic scenario for just not a disaster either.

And so, m'reader, now you know what I recollect about the timing of your text afterwards the kickoff engagement.

Do with it what you will.

#five How oft should you text

Y'all know WHAT to text and you know WHEN to text. In this tip I'll tell you HOW often to text so that yous don't scare the girl away and lose her (for all of eternity).

When I was browsing Reddit to meet what they call back about the beginning text subsequently a date, I saw a girl posting this:

Yeah, excessive messaging can exist a turn off but likewise LITTLE can be confusing and frustrating…

I concord. And then practice you.

Because even though her advice sounds very smart, she's (unknowingly) using a clever argumentation flim-flam.

Namely that Annihilation excessive is bad. And too little of Anything is bad. "Too petty" and "excessive" are bad by definition.

It's a smart answer that doesn't give y'all a solution.

Because how much is excessive? And how little it TOO little?

It's a tough question to answer, because every situation is unlike.

Just here's a few guidelines to stick to:

The first text is yours (unless if she beats you to it). From earlier in this commodity you already know when to send information technology and what to say in it.

If she texts you a lot, you can text back a lot. Merely in this instance it'due south improve to lock in a 2d appointment.

If she is placidity over text, then don't endeavour to strength a texting marathon. Instead probe her to come across if she's down for a 2nd date.

A conversation where both of you put in approximately equal amounts of text is good. If she texts more than y'all, and then you're good also.

If she texts less than you lot but does text you, good, nevertheless advise a second meetup.

If she doesn't text you back at all anymore…

Then she should read the tip right below here:

#6 Ladies: rejection text later outset date

Whether you're a lady or a fine admirer, when a engagement was bad, you need to permit the other person know.

Simply how do you practice this without hurting your date? How can you be a admirer or a kind woman when rejecting someone?

I really enjoyed hearing your stories about Cathay and your other travels. Care for a round ii?

Rather not, I didn't relish your presence. Have a skilful life though.

That's a good example of how non to do it.

If you had an awkward date or a straight up BAD date, there'due south never a reason to make the other person feel bad.

But if he or she still wants to run across you, then it's your job to say things as they are. Nothing much more than rare and valuable than some skillful onetime honesty.

All y'all need to do it spit some truth. In a considerate style.

At present let me tell you a undercover:

I am not a woman. I have a penis and a archaic man-brain. BUT if I were a woman, I'd poetry my rejection text something along the lines of this:

Hey, Louis! I just desire to thank yous for your time earlier. I respect y'all a lot for [x]. Even so I didn't experience the connection I'grand looking for right now. I know that might suck to hear, simply I desire to exist honest with you and with myself. I hope you understand and I wish y'all all the all-time.

[ten] being whatsoever you lot found noteworthy virtually the guy. For instance: his honesty.

Would this text make him feel great about the situation? Heck no it won't.

But volition it articulate upward any defoliation he might have? Heck yeah, it will.

If he now chooses to go along chasing and trying to get with the girl, then that'due south on him.

(And he shouldn't, he should respect her selection and leave her be.)

If you're a guy that didn't get a text back at all, then read on, I'll tell you what to do in just a bit.

Only showtime…

Bonus: Video on how to text her dorsum

Subsequently every successful first date comes a text message…

…and what you're texting her right then and there, sets the tone for the rest of the online chat.

So choose… your words… WISELY!

I shot a video for you, sharing all my secrets (except the perverted ones.)

Check the video hither:

Here is what yous're getting in the video:

• 9 Lines from another online dating "expert" (that will make her throw upwards)
• A play tricks that makes mail service-date text easy as pie, and super impactful
• My "Listen Remind Flirt" technique
• A super smart quote by Dale Carnegie that I can't call back
• How to fix the second date
• A 2nd -equally juicy- way to set up the 2d date

All together that'south skillful for half-dozen minutes and sixteen seconds of my annoying face up on your screen.

Seen it? Then let's hop over to Reddit for a second.

#vii Some Reddit examples (smashing and non so great communication)

This Reddit user stumbled upon the following problem:

What do I do after a successful starting time date?

So I went on a engagement yesterday where we both hit it off quite well and both had a corking time. After I dropped her off and got home, I realized I have no thought what to talk about now. I know she likes me and is attracted to me but I'g afraid my brain is gonna simply stay turned off and I'll become from being funny, smart, and interesting to beingness wearisome as shit.

Let'due south see if he got some expert or bad communication from others.

Here's some replies I institute in the comments:

I usually await 3-4 days afterwards the starting time appointment…

❌Holy hell. Imagine going on a date and and then not hearing from the girl from 3-iv days. Do y'all look her to stay still in the meanwhile?

Jack off.

And then one time your brain is clear, text that you lot had a swell time and would dear to become out over again.

✅ If you're a bit of an eager guy that tends to go easily excited. Then past all means. Lotion upwards and text her when your encephalon actually works.

Do an activity for the 2nd appointment, non something similar dinner where you just sit down and talk. Get bowling or something like that. The activity gives the engagement momentum and gives you something to talk about.

✅Peachy advice, practiced sir. Not only for the second date, but definitely for the first engagement as well. But like this fella responded:

Great choice! It makes you seem interesting with existent hobbies, which is ideal. IMO dinner isn't even a skilful option for any of the showtime few dates. It's tiresome, and feels like an interview.

✅Yes sir, it can easily get an interview vibe, and I don't know about your job interviews, but mine weren't very sexy per se.

Obviously set up a second engagement, and in the concurrently just enquire questions, show her yous want to get to know her more. Inquire her well-nigh her day or her favorite movie, ask her where'd she similar to travel to one day, etc.

✅Yes, work towards that 2d date. Why else are you texting her.

❌No on all the rest. I'm hoping that you exercise want to get to know her indeed. But you're not trying to find out all the details nigh her over text in between engagement 1 and two. It's ok to ask her a question and show some interest. But go along the general vibe playful and teasing. DON'T text her boring things like "Hey, how is your twenty-four hour period?". I tin can think of 69 more interesting texts to work towards a 2nd appointment.

If yous do send her those boring, standard questions, there's a fair hazard to y'all won't become a response after the get-go engagement.

#8 No response text later on the first date

So you got a text afterward first date then naught… Or maybe you texted her and she didn't even bother to respond.

You may accept lost your potential wifey, the mother of your children simply vanished!

Maybe, who knows…

…just that sh!t doesn't even affair.

If you went on a date with a girl and you get no response to your text later the first date, then there'due south 3 things I would advise:

1. Requite her at least a twenty-four hours to respond, peradventure even ii, then text a 2nd fourth dimension
2. Observe out what yous could do meliorate adjacent time
3. End having scarcity mindset, shrug your shoulders and move on

If a daughter is ghosting you, that'due south her option. If you allow her haunt you, that's on you.

#ix God'south gift for setting up the next date

You armed and ready to set up those 2d dates at present, role player.

You know what to exercise and what non to practise when it comes to your text after the first date, at least.

For all other texts you lot are on your own…

…Skilful luck.

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…Alright, fine.

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